Last night really got me thinking about the control women can have over a man if they show a little flesh.
An up and coming glamour model (Front, Zoo, Nuts, FHM etc) was out and about in her local town wearing a very unglamorous checked shirt, jeans and boots, sure the face was dolled up but the point I’m trying to make was that the outfit was basic and slightly unflattering. Now, yes, I must admit she is a stunner but a guy could easily pass her by or treat her like any other pretty girl in Gravesend – however, its a well known fact in town that she’s a glamour model and I’ve yet to meet a person who hasn’t seen her boobs because of it!
She can demand nearly anything from a man with her presence alone and I think its done subconsciously. Women know what men primarily want and they use this to their advantage. I am not bitching, its quite the opposite, I’m admiring the way she conducts herself. Of course she is aware that everyone has seen her naked (it is her job) and it becomes mesmerizing to the men who see/talk to her!
Its not hard to get a guys attention in Gravesend – I must admit – but to then slowly draw him in is another thing entirely.
I wore a lace jumper last night and didn’t have a nice top to wear under it so just decided on the bra and because of my quirkiness I then decided that this bra should be bright blue. It was me being funny, you were going to see my bra anyway so I might as well make it bloody obvious!
I’m not one to show any flesh at all really, I’m quite vanilla and a lace jumper is probably as much flesh as I’m ever going to show – well, in winter anyway! The attention I got was really odd and unfortunately, men couldn’t help but stare, approach me constantly and old friends were getting close. It was as if the jumper was flirting for me. If I was that kind of girl (single or in a relationship) I could’ve quite easily received a few free drinks, few dances and a couple of snogs and just because of the bra revealing jumper. I guarantee that I would not have had the same ”success” if I had worn my usual clobber.
I’m not a sexy woman. If a guy would ever fancy me, I reckon it would be on my boyish charm and sense of humour! Plus, I dont flinch at the word c**t which can be a bonus to some men…
I know my boyfriend wont appreciate this post but it’s something I really wanted to share as I genuinely find it amusing.
A woman could literally make a man do anything if they made him think about her naked…
I guess the moral of this is to not underestimate the power of a woman’s body. x
