The ‘it’s not hard to get a guys attention in Gravesend’ is most likely down to the majority of them being meatheads who are fueled by drink and drugs. Not difficult to see that, so if one were to flash a blue bra the chances are they’d be ogling you.

Some people see it as trashy though, and would rather be talking to the vanilla girl above the one that purposely/subconsciously goes out revealing nearly everything so someone would buy her drinks all night; it can look desperate and attention seeking. I can’t say I’d be one to be ‘mesmerised’ by the so called up and coming glamour model, but then again I’ve not met her (I think I know who you’re referring to though), but I don’t tend to have trouble with attractive girls seeking my attention anyway, so may be immune to such a thing these days. I’m not trying to pat myself on the back with that last bit there, just a point of reference to what shapes my views.

Apoligies to adding a random comment like this, but I so happened to have come across your blog by chance and read the first entry (like if you were to start browsing wikipedia and clicked through pages linking to pages etc ect ect). You may appreciate another opinion and one in which is from a male perspective.

You have a nice style of writing by the way; most people are lazy with formulating written text. All the best.